Saturday, September 19, 2009

pUrSuIt Of HAPP'Y'NESS!!!!

Recently I saw a movie which i liked the most, Chris Gardner, a seller of outdated bone scanner. Isn't it foolish..... wife suggested!!!! Slowly he realises the business was not taking him anywhre... but wasnt his mistake to take things lightly??? when I was watching this movie I remebered a book called Who moved my cheese...... but to my amusement i realised this book was not released before this movie's adaptation book!!!
The movie i am talking is PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS. Everytime I think about these things they send me into trance....... The most commonly repeated dialogue of the movie, Thomas Jefferson's declaration of Independence. What is the happiness we're looking for? Chris's ability to provide basics things of life to his family? Or is capacity to make his wife feel that he is a complete looser?
Actually after some times i realised not.... Its his capability to make himself realise that he can be part of this world. Which has no place for loosers, filled with hpocrites isn;t it? Its his ability make his son not realise the ill effects of being part of a world completely filled with selfish and self obsessed people.... Make Mr. Frakish realise he can be much better than a person who parks cars, gets coffee.... and lends $1o...
The scene in which he takes his son to the public loo and tells him stories to pacify, the scene in which he pulls his son to get into the bus and christopher(his son) looses his Captain America, are too touchy but they end up teaching some strong and deep routed lessons of life....
But at the same time the scenes of Football match comes back with a strong message that everything in this life is a phase.... happiness makes u feel good.... but bad things teach u... and most importantly makes u sturdy enough to go through the same phase again.... best example is SWINE FLU..... once it comes and u r still alive.... u r less likely to get affected again by it.... ur body builds resistance to it...
The last few scenes of the movie show the silver lining of the clouds, the scene in which he meets the person who got him the job in the loo and that person says whatever happens, he was proud of chris, the scene where he was called by Mr. Frakish and people compliment on wearing a shirt to the office.... and when he is congratulated for being the better among the best. Thats when u realise all this is worth for that one moment of glory.... is this wat we call PURSUIT OF HAPP'Y'NESS!!!???!!! the question marks to question the result and the way it came through...

Is this wat i wanted??

I have always thought wat we all wanted.... but never realised. I wanted my life to be very very simple.. uncomplicated, not complex, very very simple.... where there are things which make my family and people around happy... is this too much... we some time get so involved in our things we forget wats life is leading us to.... Is it wrong to ask for some one who stands by u. supports u. fights with u and for u?? emotions are sad loose motions which start and just dont seem to end...... even when u take inhibitors..... care of people who love u.... expecting them to be around... is it all i wanted??? the answer is yes/....... thats all..... because it is important to realise that once these things happen u cannot be laid back.. because the love and care of this people make u push for more. acheive greater heights for these people... the best acheivers in the world say the biggest thing they have got in life is the one what they call as the greatest strength whose love and care have inspired them to achieve greater heights.....
The other part of the coin is very very funny.... because it puts not so worthy and unrealistic hopes.... People whom u love are good but its very importnat to find the people who love u.... who care for u.... expecting them to be their for u when u r weak, when u r not so fine, when u r not capable handling things.... is this wat i wanted?
sucess is meaningless when u realise there is no one to celebrate, I recently read a message, "Day by day nothing changed but when i looked back everthing was different".